“He Must Increase” — Humility and Purpose in John 3:22–36

“He must increase, but I must decrease.” — John 3:30 (KJV)

🌿 Introduction:

John the Baptist wasn’t threatened by Jesus’ growing influence — he rejoiced in it. In this passage, we see a man who knows his assignment and gladly steps aside when his work is done. What if we lived that way — content to play our role, even if the spotlight moves?

🔥 Reflection:

As Jesus begins baptizing, John's disciples come to him, concerned that more people are going to Jesus. But John reminds them — he is not the Christ, only the friend of the bridegroom. This isn’t a moment of rivalry; it’s a moment of release.

John makes a bold, freeing declaration:

“He must increase, but I must decrease.”
He doesn’t say, “We’ll share the stage.” He doesn’t try to hold onto influence or compare ministries. Instead, he yields with joy.

🧎🏾‍♀️ Devotional Thought:

Sometimes we hold on to roles, titles, or influence that God is asking us to release. We want to be needed, remembered, or revered — but Christ calls us to humble surrender. This passage isn’t just about John’s humility; it’s about our response to God’s will when it doesn’t keep us at the center.

Are we okay with God growing something we started... and finishing it without us?

🙏 Prayer Prompt:

Lord, teach me to decrease so that You may increase in every area of my life. Strip away pride, performance, and comparison. Let me find joy in Your name being lifted higher — even if no one sees me. Make me faithful in my assignment, and humble in my exit.

✍🏽 Journal Prompts:

• What area of my life is God asking me to surrender?

• Am I holding onto something out of pride or fear of being forgotten?

• How can I celebrate Jesus increasing in someone else's life, even if it means stepping back?